These two sweet things were brought home during Mother’s Day, it was my husband idea to surprise me and his connivance with this secret plan is of course my eldest daughter who accomplished the job perfectly. The sweet blueberry cheese cake is from bread talk not bread work as I mentioned to my other blog. They also brought a flower for me. I feel so special in that day even with all the issues between me and my husband. How I wish Mother’s Day will be last a little longer than a day so I could enjoy every bit of it. When we arrived home, even how full we were, we can’t help but to have a slice of it, I guess I ate 3 slices that my husband laugh when he learned it when we chatted online. The flowers are still here, we displayed it in the kitchen we make sure that the water is replaced every now and then to avoid some harmful insects that would live in stagnant water.

As I mentioned to my other blog, ever since Mj started her musical lesson, I also learned new terms and so as what brand of instrument that has the quality and as well as worth the pocket. When we purchased the guitar of my daughter, I admit it was not easy at all. We have to be very meticulous in every detail since I don’t like to be sorry at the ended, purchasing the cheaper one and yet it would get busted after a week of using it. Moreover I am happy that Mj was able to finish the whole course and now she is stepping forward by learning wind instruments and one of them is how to flute. I am already inquiring on it over the Internet and I am sure I would be able to afford it in due time. She is okay not learning it this month, maybe next summer she will enroll for it, I just told her to enhance her learning at school.

I’d been telling my husband if we could buy or assume a house nearby but he keeps on telling me to wait until he arrives. He planned to be here February, March, and April and yet he still didn’t come, I know migrating to another country is already impossible since he is not earning anymore. He already retired from work since February and he is living now at his friend’s house. May is almost already over yet all the plans are pending, renting this house is not giving me problem but what I am concern about is the security of my kids. What if something happen along the way and our income will not be enough for all of us, how could we purchase a house then? I really don’t know what the plan of my husband is; the visa is not possible anymore for us. I don’t know if there’s something wrong with our petition or what papers are lacking or maybe he just doesn’t want us to be there and worst he doesn’t like us to be together. The financial support is okay but sometimes it is not the basis of a complete family, sometimes the presence of each one of us is important.

There are some of my workmates who lives at the province and one of them is commuting everyday for two hours just to go to work and that is without the traffic. It is not also tiring but it is also expensive because of the fare incurred everyday. She is looking for a boarding house to stay while she works here in the city. One of our workmates offered but she can only have a vacant room in their house on July since her sisters from the states just arrived to have a vacation. If only this house is near at work, I might also offer the spare room to her. It is an additional income to my part too aside from blogging and the salary I got from work.

There are houses already in the city that offers room for rent for the students and workers who’s the permanent address is in the province. But the landlady or the landlord should be cautious of whom they would like to rent the spare room. I mean these people are not familiar to you, so it is an advantage to know the background of the renter. In addition to that, it is better if you know the renter personally or referred by your friend, to avoid thank you payments and trouble that they might cause. It is also good if you put a curfew to them so you will not be disturb in your sleep because somebody is knocking at the door just to come in.